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Submitted by Hockeygod28 on

I haven't been on this site in a while and thought it was a good time to do an update. I find myself in a flatline after reaching success a year ago. My success is defined in my mind as achieving an erection during intercourse. I don't know where to go next, as hard as I try to abstain from masturbation without porn I always relapse. Maybe this is because my incentive isn't enough of a motive anymore. I always pushed myself to abstain so I could one day achieve an erection with a woman. I did that. That being said, its not all roses in the bed.

Casual Sex, Dating and Serious Relationships? (What's the right answer)

Submitted by Bhayes on

Hello All,

I just felt the need to put this out there. Without telling a long story, simply put. I'm 33 years old and I'm a virgin. It's an embarrassing thing, but the truth is the truth. I'm not socially awkward at all and it's not that I haven't had opportunities or that I'm unattractive llooking either.

Small Success!

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Submitted by Arnold on

Hi y'all

I have been struggling with the lack of safe non-sexual touch in my community and was expressing this at a local men’s group I attend (Women are very challenging for me (relatively unsafe) as I am recovering from the effects of childhood abuse). My Naturopath had suggested that expressing my needs in community was success in itself and so I was experimenting with this concept. Recently a fellow offered to do a Reiki/Quantum Touch healing trade with me and so we did! Relief!