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(2017 article) What Is Karezza? ~ How Sex Without Orgasm Deeply Satisfies Us (Part 1)

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“So she thoroughly taught him that one cannot take pleasure without giving pleasure, and that every gesture, every caress, every touch, every glance, every last bit of the body has its secret, which brings happiness to the person who knows how to wake it. She taught him that after a celebration of love the lovers should not part without admiring each other, without being conquered or having conquered, so that neither is bleak or glutted or has the bad feeling of being used or misused.” ~ Hermann Hesse, Siddhartha

Make Sex, not Love? Über die “Scharfstellung” unserer Triebe! | Heike Melzer | TEDxStuttgart

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Men are reporting that Viagra works with porn, and with partners not at all.

German medical doctor and neurologist speaks about porn's effects on relationships.

German with English subtitles. Excellent.

the olive tree

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I'm updating to say that things are going really well in our 18-year relationship. Patience and communication are paying off, after about five years of me being interested in karezza and him not being "there" yet.

My title refers to Penelope and Odysseus' bed, built on the stump of an olive tree, which symbolizes peace. How's that for peace between the sheets?!