“So she thoroughly taught him that one cannot take pleasure without giving pleasure, and that every gesture, every caress, every touch, every glance, every last bit of the body has its secret, which brings happiness to the person who knows how to wake it. She taught him that after a celebration of love the lovers should not part without admiring each other, without being conquered or having conquered, so that neither is bleak or glutted or has the bad feeling of being used or misused.”
Men are reporting that Viagra works with porn, and with partners not at all.
German medical doctor and neurologist speaks about porn's effects on relationships.
German with English subtitles. Excellent.
[Excerpt from SEX in the Subtle Realms of Infinity (in press)]
Chimp males go for older females, who are more likely to conceive in promiscuous situations. Human male preference for women with a longer fertile window ahead of them may be related to human male tendency to pair-bond.
We've been going along quite well using lube. I was using MCT oil, but it irritated my penis. Then we moved to butter but I think my penis developed some irritation that is still going on and we can't use any lube at all that is oil-based.
I'm getting aloe vera gel today and will try that.
Any ideas are welcomed!
I'm updating to say that things are going really well in our 18-year relationship. Patience and communication are paying off, after about five years of me being interested in karezza and him not being "there" yet.
My title refers to Penelope and Odysseus' bed, built on the stump of an olive tree, which symbolizes peace. How's that for peace between the sheets?!