Lots of folks here helped me. When I started here, I went back and read virtually every old post, multiple times.
It's been awesome ever since, but I know that what happens to most people in this "community" is they graduate and move on.
Mostly because this type of sex just becomes the way you do things in your life. There is not much to improve on and no reason to keep visiting.
But I think most of the "old" members do return here from time to time.
I'd love to hear from you, you know who you are.