Hey guys. First time to post on here. I'm a 17 year old guy. Now, if you're one of those people who like to straight to the problem, jump to the last paragraph. If you want to read the details, keep going. I used to watch porn ever since the age of 12 and I started masturbating to it at the age of 14. I've done it for the past 3 years with an average of once a day, every day. I got with my first girl 2 months ago, and I noticed that i hardly get hard when I'm with her. Tbh, I was shocked. All my friends told me how easy it is to get erections when they're with their girls and I was really worried. At first I thought it was the girl's problem, but when my friends saw her, they all said something is wrong with me.
I started searching the internet for answers and didn't find a lot of info. I decided to stop P and M for a few days to see what's going on. This was exactly 21 days ago. During my abstinence period, I found out yourbrainonporn.com and then I found out this website. it's been really helpful so far.
I hope I have the strength to fully recover and be normal again. I remember back when i was 13 and used to get turned on just by the thought of girls.
Now, my big problem is my girlfriend. She wants to meet me nearly every day. My erection problems are making me refuse and give her some BS excuse. I don't want to meet her and have no erection like every time. especially since she started noticing and asked me about it. I told her that i was just stressed out and next time would be better. She wants to see me tonight, but I think I'm on flat line stage. I don't feel like doing anything sexual and I don't want to disappoint her. My morning erections stopped and I no longer get spontaneous erections. Honestly, I'm starting to worry even though I know this is a good sign of progress. What should I do about my girlfriend? Go there and make out and refuse anything sexual? or Not go at all? or go and try to go sexual and risk looking like sh#&? I'm honestly confused.