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1 week no P

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I'm feeling normal, not much to report. A couple days ago while walking in a park, I felt friendly and had a few short conversations with dog-walkers. I like your dog, cool dog, etc. Other than that, the usual.

Beard effect

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I've got a beard that's coming into the sweet spot right around now, a little over two months in. Longest beard I've ever had, and I'm going to let it run for a while. It's having a good effect on first impressions with people. Subconsciously, it seems like a lot of people find a beard friendly, comforting maybe. Like a mature father instinctual first impression. And it draws attention. I guess subconsciously we like to look at beards when we see them. Because a lot more people are looking at me. I notice it in my subconscious now too.

And again

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Well, I lasted two weeks on the attempt I most recently posted about here. Then I tried again on July 1st and made it 16 days that time. I can make it two weeks easily now, and then I end up PMO'ing every day for a week after that. I'm going to give it another go here, currently on day 2. Here's hoping for 3 weeks or more.

1 week

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Since I started this log just over 6 months ago, I've probably made it up to or past the 1 week mark a dozen times. One week is no great accomplishment at this point, but I felt like journaling anyway. This time I'm making it no porn only. I'm still masturbating, still fantasizing. I get erotic dreams and morning wood any time I go more than a couple days without porn. So I've just been finishing the dreams off in the mornings whenever they happen. In the dreams, I am turned on by the whole sensory interaction, rather than just the visual. That's it for now.

12 days

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Made it 12 days this time, but then that sneaky brain got back into the porn. The last few days... 10 through 12... it felt pretty good. I had noticeable extra energy and sociability. Back to day 1 today.

Pickup bootcamp?

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So I didn't last much longer after my last post. Then I had another one week mark that I didn't post. And here I am posting yet another one week marker. So I've firmly established I can last a week. But that doesn't do me much good. I'm now beginning to consider some more drastic measures. I will probably need to change careers at some point. Currently I work at the computer from home, where I live alone. Before doing that, I'm also considering one of the "pick-up bootcamps" that I've read about. Has anybody tried these?

One week

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Hey Friends.

Just dropping in to note that I'm at the one week mark again. Over the last month I've had quite a few day 2's and 3's. Not much else to say, I just wanted to mark the journal. See you again next week I hope.

Day 4

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Last night I was going to the bank right after work to do a transaction with a business partner. I would have to wait for him for a few minutes so I popped into the gym right next door to use the restroom. On the way out of the gym, a girl randomly caught my eye and smiled at me. Smiled back, felt good. Went next door to the bank and without even thinking about it, I started flirting with this bank employee who asked me if I needed help. Cool witty stuff flowed effortlessly out of my mouth, almost like somebody else was speaking for me.

I'm back

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After 13 days clean, I relapsed for about as long. Now I'm back and on day 2. I agreed to dog-sit for my parents while they were on vacation for a month... and there's not much to do here, and the whole environment is an old trigger. So I didn't last long. Time to try again, two days right now.

Day 11/5 no P/MO

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Porn thoughts have been incredibly low since my last post. I think there was a 36 hour period where I didn't think of it at all, and then an image popped into my head - it struck me how long my mind had been porn-free. So the last few days have passed quite easily without those pesky cravings. At 5 days since my last O, I feel "full" again, but I'd like to try a slightly longer cycle this time. Last cycle was 6 days. This time I'd like to spend a few days at least outside of the post-O haze, which is really just beginning here at day 5.

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