I found myself this morning trying to get my wife aroused during intercourse. She just isn't. I feel somewhat of a connection but I also am fairly sure she is going through the motions to make me happy. She doesn't really mind but would prefer just cuddling.
So this morning I found myself frustrated and trying to get her going. Not a good thing. And it doesn't feel good either. I am trying to get her to read one of the Richardson books or at least look at the video of Diana's interview (thanks Sood). I think she remains shut down. This will take time. I know that. I guess it's the process and there is no rushing it.
Nothing much to add to this, just that it upset me this morning although I didn't show it.