This summer, i had sex several times with limited success. I used Cialis and got erections with oral/manual stimulation, got the condom on, but had a lot of premature ejaculation. I recently found a cuddle buddy and we have spent several days in the last week cuddling and sleeping. It's been nice and there has been no pressure to have sex.
However, I am still not getting erections from cuddling and holding like I used to (10 years ago). I am attracted to this girl, physically and emotionally.