103 days - 9 days from 4 months - to test porn free masturbation or not?

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I'm coming close to 4 months and have been reading up on re-sensitisation. So I gave a go at some light massages for 3-5 minutes at a time for the past 5 days or so. But I've recently read one or two posts, where at roughly the same time, they have masturbated without porn, and after wards they started to get morning glory and spontaneous erections again!? This is something I'd love to regain, mwood and spont erections, as this would fill me with endless confidence. Now I would be very much appreciate if I could here your points of view or more to the point your experience with this? Have any of you, masturbated at a 3/4 + month stage and afterward felt like it was almost a kick start to your engine and regained old traits as morn wood and spont erections and also libido, as ive read in one report that libido came back after.

My previous blog shows all my details, pmo free, virgin.

Although to update, I have had some activity down stairs in the past 2 weeks-ish with 50% spontaneous erections, coupled with occasional low to mid strength wood, so i am more inclined to have a test masturbation, death grip and porn free, but I'm quite anxious if it is to early?

Thank you for any light anyone can shed. I am extremely grateful for any experiences that can help at this, in my point of view, delicate stage, of finally becoming 100% active and well.

Jack.

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my two cents

I don't think masturbation right now is all that helpful. What is?

 

Spend time with girls. Any time you spend, non-sexual, non-expecting, non-performance based, is a fabulous and valuable thing. That's what it's time for. Re-wiring. Take it slow but spend time with women. You can hang out at Starbucks, catch their eye and smile. You can take dancing lessons and have great physical contact and connections with dance partners. If you're in school so much the better, but it's really what helps at this point the most, I think.

 

Thank you!

Sometimes directions just as helpful as straight forward answers as I didn't know these sites were more specific to my set predicament.

Thank you, appreciate the help.

Despite how much time passes...

and I've varied in frequency with M/O my entire life from multiple times a day, or week, to going 2, 3, to I think a maximum of 4 months without any level of anything close to masturbation. That even includes no wet dreams, zero sexual activity of any sort, solo or with someone. I would tend to believe that 'test case" masturbation would not accomplish anything (you know what I mean). Despite the time elapsed, the slips and pitfalls are usually there waiting to sneak up on you - although others with more reliable sense of self and will power may argue, I can only speak from my experience. So, look at the possibilities - let's say you give it a go - and you find wow, cool, my erectile response is functioning great. Then, you're likely to want to see how prolonged it is/how long you can keep it. It's going to be a fine line between "let's see how long/well it works" to "oh goodie, here comes a nice big release". And, while I realize that this may bring out a huge outcry or the wrath of God on me, but - personal experience speaking, masturbating without porn physically in front of you, in any form - you've still got the visuals running through your head - porn doesn't have to a picture or video. If it's about a specific person or partner, that is at least better - but as my wife has learned - why would I want to masturbate alone when I can wait and do it (or anything, really) with you? No one can completely escape the porn in their head, unless it's centered on a bonded partner.

Al ot of good points! Thank

Al ot of good points! Thank you, although porn addiction isn't a problem, i can safely say i'll never watch it again. Although, doin it once, might lead to me doing it multiple times trying to rush the rewiring process, so i think i'll leave it.

Thank you for your post.