I spent the night

Submitted by Terminus on
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33 days np, 4 days nmo.

Last night I spent that night at "Kendra's" house. It was our fourth time seeing each other in one week, and we met about a week ago. She invited me over for dinner, which was great and I met her sister and brother-in-law.

After dinner we watched a movie (barely watched) and just cuddled and made out for about 3 hours. Then we just spent the rest of the night cuddling and sleeping together.

I think I had pre last night and I know I did this morning while making out. My hardness was intermittent and strong enough last night while fooling around, but I woke up in the middle of the night with a rager, and had one this morning when I first woke up also. I have a strong feeling that a majority of my issues are anxiety/stress related.

All's good. I don't think she's ready for sex yet, and even though I'd like to try I know I'm not ready yet so I'm glad things are going (relatively) slow at least in that area.


the anxiety will disappear this way

as soon as you focus on your own pleasure and get the fact that this isn't about performance, the anxiety goes away. I realized my penis isn't under my control at all. So I simply focus on my own pleasure. And avoiding porn and masturbation with this took all the anxiety away and it is no longer a concern. It works!

Congratulations, you are so smart. You are a natural at this and it will work out awesomely and for the rest of your life. No need to worry or be concerned about erections when you have no say in them anyway. I just see what my penis is up to and it's all good and that is when things really work great.