westgate's blog

♥ Perceptions of relationships that appear to be doing well/poorly

Submitted by westgate on

I am at the stage of my life where i am thinking deeply about the kind of relationship I want. It can be easy to get caught up in the romantic ideals and emotional and sexual intensity that characterises honeymoon neurochemistry (which ill admit are great), but i've been thinking about what long term characteristics are important. Because, for me that is what really counts.

♥ Connection with other blokes

Submitted by westgate on

I had a fascinating experience tonight.
I was talking with my counsellor as part of ongoing sessions towards coping with my ex (see here). Tonight was our last session, but we started discussing how guys (in our culture) don't really talk to each other. (Please chime in if you have a different experience, as i expect most of the guys here are more in touch with their feminine energy)