So Oprah has a new network (OWN--Oprah Winfrey Network) and I was excited to see that Dr. Laura Berman (a sex therapist) has a new show called "In the Bedroom."
It is an hour-long show and each show chronicles a couple who needs "help in the bedroom" and their therapy and journey back to a sexual relationship.
Now, I love Dr. Berman and think she has a lot of good advice. However, while watching the show, I kept wanting Marnia to show up and give BETTER advice!!! I could tell that even though the doctor gave them some temporary fixes (like showing the man how to help his wife achieve orgasm), I would just bet that if you revisited that couple in a year, things would be back to the way they were.
One thing that is interesting to me and I'd love your feedback~~in both the shows I've watched, the wife had started out loving sex and then stopped wanting it, while the man still desperately wanted it and could even say exactly (to the day) when they had last had it, lol.
Do you think some women instinctively know that if they give their husbands sex (with ejaculation, of course!) whenever they want it, it will cause him to want her less? In the two marriages that were featured, both husbands loved and wanted their wives very much. The wives also loved their husbands very much, but didn't have a desire for sex. This lack of desire was blamed on upbringing and religious views (so the woman was the one who had to work on the "emotional" side of sex).
So, anyway~~I wish SO MUCH that Marnia had a similar show on Oprah's network~~how can we get this to happen!!?? It could be called "Peace Between the Sheets" and I would love to see real-life couples going through the transformation of karezza and bonding behaviors!
(P.S. How do you make the heart icon on a Mac?)