Ok, so can someone explain how a normal and natural rise and fall of dopamine should work in a real relationship (between a couple that love each other deeply).
Likely building an expectation around orgasm is pretty futile, superficial and bound to be disappointing but I'd like to know how abstinence from PMO and involvement with a girl changes desire, expectation, dopamine release and the overall sexual experience?
I suppose the vain hope is that orgasm retains the intensity experienced while using pornography. Is this realistic?
My expectation though is that porn overexcites while real intimacy has a less intense reaction in the brain?
Should dopamine increase with each sexual experience and an "addiction" form with your partner as it typically does with porn?
And when the level of dopamine hits a low, the craving for her love increase again?
Can one expect the desire, intensity and sexual fulfilment to be near, the same or lesser than what was experienced with porn?
I hope that makes some sense and thanks in advance.