Okay, we've been snuggling and cuddling each day and each night, I would say 30 minutes to an hour. I have been leaving things to her and not being needy or pressuring in any way I am aware of.
So this morning Sparkles and I were snuggling and I felt a very close connection. And after about 30 minutes or so, I said, can I plug in, and she said yes. I just whispered to her a suggestion to give presence to her vagina and it was an amazing experience for me.
After maybe 10 minutes she adjusted herself and I went deeper than I ever remember and I felt suddenly very intimate, almost scarily intimate deep contact I have never experienced before. It felt kind of shocking to me almost. It was wonderful in a way I can't describe but I am in a kind of awe over it, it feels unusually deep and scary wonderful.
It may not have been anything like that for her. Can't say. Don't want to ask. She doesn't like to talk about it which is fine with me, and if I discuss it she interprets it as pressure so I don't.