I just found this site about 10 min ago, very interesting subject matter.
Quickly glancing around it seems that I am on a similar journey as many others here.
I have allot of sexual energy and have been trying to redirect it in a positive and creative direction.
As I read the posts I hear people (guys) saying that they are forgoing orgasm.... but what I am wondering is do you all mean to say Ejaculation? Because it is not the same at all.
Correct me if I am wrong here but if you forgo orgasm... you fail to build the energy you wish direct. This defeats the purpose. If you are simply trying to develop disciplined then not masturbating at all may have merit.
I wounder if it is clear that all the edging exercises Taoist/ Tantric or whatever are intended to teach how to orgasm AND not ejaculate.
If you are altogether denying yourself pleasure ... and orgasm, you may be shutting off the power not saving it up and redirecting it.
I for one plan on until building and experiencing orgasmic energy until the planet shakes and the very rapture is rained upon the people of earth! (OK I'm being dramatic.. but you get the point)