Hi Everyone, I just joined as I am in need of some direction and advise to help with the start of my Karezza practice. First off, no I have not read any of the books. However, I have read every posting on this site and every other website on the net, including the blogs. Unfortunately, I still never found some answers to my questions.
The one thing I couldn’t find much about is birth control. I’m married and I’m on my 11th day of reboot as of today! Last night, while in scissors position (new to us)I was just hanging outside of her vagina and being so wet I just slipped my tip in just a little by mistake. Feeling so good to both of us and being at the end of my reboot I grabbed a condom and tried inserting and just lying there with her. We really didn’t feel the energy but she did like that she felt me grow inside her a little. However, as fast as I grew the faster it went down. Since she was so wet, I didn’t realize that I was totally soft and even popped out, which screwed up the condom. We tried it again and the same thing happened. It only took a second to become hard again so I suggested we go traditional missionary and had no issues. I started off real slow (reframing from thrusting) and stopped a few times to try and get a connection. Since I was on top I couldn’t totally relax as I didn’t want to put all my weight on her. I lasted about 45min (I’ve always had good control) before I had to tap out or lose my reboot, if you get what I’m saying lol.
So while searching today about Karezza and condom usage I really didn’t find much at all. I understand erections come and go with Karezza but how do you stop from going soft and popping out while in scissor position? And does anyone here use or have used condoms that can give me some feedback? I’m looking into women condoms this week and might try this as an alternative. A little help for a newbie Please!