The goal of our lovemaking is to physically and mentally unite. We do it to comfort each other rather than to satisfy only our own sexual hunger. Sometimes we are aroused, but most of the the times we are barely aroused. Nothing can make us more relaxed than me resting deep inside her.
We try to go to sleep together. If one of us is late to bed, other eagerly wait to welcome him/her. Sometimes we are tired and just connect and fall sleep. But most of the times we make love for around an hour or more. We sleep face to face lying on our side in a single pillow. She was never so receptive and I was never so deep inside her. We relax with me near her cervix and enjoy our deep physical connection. Either we connect our lips and kiss or we gaze at each other and smell our breath. Complete bliss. We can feel every little movement of ours, no matter how little that is. Sometimes there is some movement like gentle rocking motion but no in or out movements. An hour can pass so easily lying in stillness and it is the most wonderful part of our lovemaking. Erection comes and goes but the best one is the erection without rigidness. She finds melting and growing inside her so pleasuring that she even moans. Our effortless and most relaxing lovemaking continues until we drop off to sleep connected.
We don't know how long we remain connected in our sleep. In our sleep what happens is really a mystery. Few midnights I woke up with a hard erection inside her and even quite a few times I had wet dreams inside her. But, usually we find ourselves disconnected after waking up. Maybe I go soft and slip out from her or maybe we move and roll apart in sleep. We reconnect again after waking up in the morning or in midnight and let our love making continue. Hardly few times we have woken up connected in the morning and it is the most wonderful way to wake up.
I like to know from the karezza couple that how often you sleep connected together and how often you wake up still connected? Do anyone have any suggestion to happen it more frequently?
When my wife is in her period, we don't connect but still we sleep cuddling together in a single pillow. Yes , sometimes we get too much aroused and I end up ejaculating inside her. It happens after couple of weeks of abstaining from orgasm and we try time it before the start of her menstrual days. But generally our lovemaking has no relation with thrusting or orgasm. It is all about relaxation and connection.