I met my partner 3 months ago and we both were inspired by peace between the sheets and this approach to intimacy .
We live in different cities and can only see each other 2 nights a week occasionally more.
We stayed at the shallow end for a good while and during this phase we could be up for hours enjoying intimacy and found sleep didn't come easy . Whilst we had 10 days together we opened the door to the inter course stage and found it to be be very satisfying. Here's the difficulty . On the nights we are together the energy between us is very strong and we can be up for hours making love without ejaculation. Trouble is it's gets to the point where her kids will be in soon and we have barely slept . A couple of times this has led to agreeing to orgasm to induce some sleep. This brings up uneasiness for at least a week.
A few times we have fallen asleep in close cuddles and it's felt sweet but more often we can be awake until the early hours enjoying each other . But then tired the next day. Only having short time together makes it harder I know and we are looking at changing this but in the meantime it would be nice to have the intimacy and sleep together .
Anyone else had similar experience?