Have been trying Karezza for the past 2 weeks. My gf and I were going to break up but decided to see if karezza will help us out as a last resort. She was quite reluctant to it before , but given that our relationship was in peril - she wanted to try. She orgasmed on the first day by accident. I ejaculated by accident 2 days ago. I didn't feel as bad as it usually do which is good. Though the past 2 days , my gf was getting pretty upset at me on topics we've discussed and resolved before and it seemed uncalled for. ( not sure if this is related to her orgasm 2 weeks prior, I stayed pretty calm and didn't let myself get upset) . Besides that - those 2 weeks have gone by pretty good.
I noticed 2 days ago that when I ejaculated is right when I started to feel pleasure from my penis. Probably wouldn't have been able to sense that without karezza. Sex to me hasn't been very pleasurable. I've tried a different condom, tried more lube, tried slowing down, speeding up. I just don't really get pleasure from it. But somehow if I get aggressive or go a bit fast or too sexual , I'll feel an overwhelming urge to ejaculate.If I start feeling anxious - I'll feel like ejaculating. I agreed to taking the condom off once ( she's on bc) and this gave me a bit of pleasure - but with that pleasure and anxiety (I was afraid of ejaculating and impregnating her - even though she's on bc - just don't want to take the risk) I got very close to ejaculating.
Thoughts ? Tips ? Advice ? THANKS !