the "old member" reunion thread - please tell us how you are doing if you've been here a long time

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Lots of folks here helped me. When I started here, I went back and read virtually every old post, multiple times.

It's been awesome ever since, but I know that what happens to most people in this "community" is they graduate and move on.

Mostly because this type of sex just becomes the way you do things in your life. There is not much to improve on and no reason to keep visiting.

But I think most of the "old" members do return here from time to time.

I'd love to hear from you, you know who you are.

Anyone who has been on here for 3 or 4 years or more, I'd love to see where you are at and what your journey has been like.

I'll start. Mine is very stable. My wife doesn't enjoy sex much, we have intercourse about 4 times a week, Karezza, and it is wonderful for me. I have gotten mostly over the "why doesn't she like sex the way I do", I continue to hope she'll want to, but she is satisfied with this level of things for her and isn't interested in focusing on sex in her world. 

So now, what has your journey been like?

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Same for Me

emerson, my experience with my wife is exactly the same as your experience with your wife. But, all is fine and both of us are content. And, I hear fewer requests for ‘normal’ sex, nowadays. I appreciate my good fortune.

Better than ever!

As someone who experienced incredibly difficulties at first in resisting climaxing, I can now say (eleven years on!!!) that this urge is almost wholly tamed; and the net result has been pleasure for both my wife and myself that is off the scale. We haven’t knowingly graduated to ‘’energy sex’’, but we are finding less overt movement can bring extraordinary sensations in its wake. A certain intensity has to be present, but not necessarily much friction.

I am glad to say my wife is fully on board (without our having ever really discussed it) and the learning process continues.

Well, Emerson...looks like

Well, Emerson...looks like you holding the torch for the karezza alumni. It is interesting that this was such an active forum for a number of years there and now its rather quite overall.

As for myself, yes, karezza style sex is just what I do....like is there another kind??!! With that said, I do find I am exploring new territory with karezza sex as the base line. The connection through karezza grounding the root and heart as an foundational springboard to spiritual/metaphysical realms. We’re exploring sex as a portal to other dimensions.....how about that for woowoo language!

Greetings fellow “Seasoned Members!”

Hope everyone is doing well during this Holiday season. My lovely wife and I are still doing well with our version of male based Karezza. We have always focused on maximizing pleasure for each other and my wife remains multi-orgasmic (think Energizer Bunny) while I avoid orgasm at all costs because the hangover effects impact me severely.

We still engage in lots of other activities besides Karezza but truly nothing compares to the Bio-energy exchange that occurs during the slow, prolonged wet PIV connection. We have engaged in this way for so long it has become automatic for us and the benefits have been so profound there is no going back.

I log on to the site infrequently to see if there have been any developments in understanding of the biochemistry in order to better understand why my wife can have orgasms with seemingly no detrimental effects while I am a “one and done” with significant hangover effects.

We continue to be amazed at the magnitude of energy exchange that occurs between us with very little friction and ever more subtle movement during full wet PIV. You learn after a time that it is all about managing and moving energy back and forth between you, and the more you can slow down and savor the experience the further you can go. Delicious in a way I cannot put to words.