My girl friend is taking a Women’s Studies class this semester. She started telling me about stuff in the class, some of which I will admit I didn’t pay too much attention to. A few weeks ago she told me that she would like to try Karezza. I told her like yeah, whatever; I thought it was some kind of food. Then she said, “So you are totally cool with not ejaculating? That is so awesome.” I am like WTF, but she seemed so happy and excited. She said it was great that I was more open to new things. Contrary to what she sometimes thinks, I am not a Neanderthal. I am engineering major, she is a psychology major. Sometimes with us it isn’t half full, half empty; it’s two different glasses.
As some background to our relationship; we have been together since midway though our junior year of high school. The beginning of our second semester freshman year of college my girlfriend wanted to “take a break” and see other people. We were both under a lot of pressure, moving away from home, starting college and the relationship. I didn’t take well to being dumped and just started really partying. Weekends were devoted to getting wasted and hooking up. Towards the end of the semester we were both so miserable from being apart that we just started talking, no sex. We had both been with a bunch of other people during the breakup and decided that we really belong together. We grew up a great deal our freshman year. That summer we went home and each had to make up a couple classes at a local junior college. Needless to say our parents were all pretty pissed at our second semester grades. They also questioned our relationship, they knew about the breakup but not the other stuff, and we plan on keeping it that way.
Now a year later we are both absolutely committed to being together. I love my girlfriend with all my heart and she is truly my best friend. I want to make her happy in all aspects of our relationship, especially sexually. Our life is back on track with school. She gave me information on Stockham and Karezza from her class that I read over the last few weeks. I did a search and looked at this site, which is really informative. When my girl friend registered for the class I told her not to get any crazy ideas like not shaving her legs; she said not to worry that I was hairy enough for both of us. I never thought this was where the class would lead us, way beyond leg shaving or not.
Now for my questions; I don’t see a lot of college students involved in Karezza nor do we know anyone here involved in it. When I do see them on the site they are not in a relationship and have some problems. Is Karezza common for college students; is it particularly beneficial for us? There are certain logistical problems with long Karezza sessions living in separate dorms, even though there are definitely sleepovers. We my roommate’s Wednesday night class and our alone time is 2 orgasms long. Our private relationship time is where we can find it. Do you have any information or suggestions on other college Karezza relationships or anyone who is in those relationships information on how things work out? Any real benefits or problems that are specific to college students?
It seems like most of the relationships on the site, our current status included, is sort of “guy run sex”. Since Karezza is my girl friend’s idea I would like to make this experience more “girl run sex”. Any suggestions or thoughts on that would be appreciated.
Sorry if this is a little long and a bit rambling. I am normally a really chill guy; just when I am researching or studying I get pretty compulsive until I get my mind wrapped around the thing, then I kind of sort things out once I understand them fully. Just the way my mind works, no wonder I am with a psych major.