1. The other day I got really turned on by some sexy videos on YouTube. I made the mistake of then hunting for porn, but to my surprise my erection actually decreased when looking at the porn and I wasn't really being turned on as much by it as I used to be (though I was still horny). I take this as a good sign, but then why was I so turned on by video's that showed no naughty bits? Is my imagination better than porn? Sorry, just a bit confused by this one.
2. When is it safe to MO? I'm getting tired of waiting for a wet dream. I even had a dream last night where things got horny, but then it's like I knew I was dreaming (in my dream I was like "finally, time for a wet dream") and obviously that catapulted me out of the dream. DAMN!! I feel a lot of pressure downstairs sometimes, even when I'm not horny. Wondering if I try MO with strictly no porn or imagination, and whether that's ok at 4weeks on? Otherwise what else can I do to relieve the pressure?