Day 75 and No Libido

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Today marks day 75 for me, The only thing i get is weak erections during the day, and The chaser effect is really annoying me.

I'm being very patient with the results that I'm getting but sometimes it can bothersome, BTW I'm 19 and I need some constructive input on my recovery

I'm on day 54, and I have

I'm on day 54, and I have been kind of frustrated about my lack of response to real women. I think it is one of those things that may hit you all at once when you least expect it though. Tonight I was out with some new friends. One of them is a girl about my age who is pretty cute. I know she is single, and I'm thinking I may have a shot with her down the road. The point of me telling you all that is that when I was standing next to her tonight, I found myself feeling turned on. I didn't get an erection or anything, but I felt like if I had an opportunity to fool around with her it wouldn't be a problem. I think the key is the legitimate prospect of sex. I don't know if that is true or not but it was nice to have that "turned on" feeling from just standing near her. So in your case, your brain may be a lot more ready than you think. Keep posting, I'll be curious to hear about your progress.

James2568 wrote:

[quote=James2568]I'm on day 54, and I have been kind of frustrated about my lack of response to real women. I think it is one of those things that may hit you all at once when you least expect it though. Tonight I was out with some new friends. One of them is a girl about my age who is pretty cute. I know she is single, and I'm thinking I may have a shot with her down the road. The point of me telling you all that is that when I was standing next to her tonight, I found myself feeling turned on. I didn't get an erection or anything, but I felt like if I had an opportunity to fool around with her it wouldn't be a problem. I think the key is the legitimate prospect of sex. I don't know if that is true or not but it was nice to have that "turned on" feeling from just standing near her. So in your case, your brain may be a lot more ready than you think. Keep posting, I'll be curious to hear about your progress.[/quote]Now I'm on day 87 and I've been getting lots of eye balling from woman and smiles from them, I've also noticed my mood is always good,I'm sleeping alot better than I use to. I'm just waiting for my flatline phase to sizzle out.

Day 89

I still have weak erections but I have a positive mood, I'm getting tons of looks from woman. y Tomorrow is day 90 and now I'm waiting for my strong erections to return

Day 90

I noticed that I have sensitivity in my penis when I use my left hand to use the restroom,But why no sensitivity with my right hand ?

Is it because I use to M with my right hand before I started to reboot ?

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[quote=jersey1][quote=life-cubed]I guess the left hand seems new and exciting to your brain![/quote]Will my right hand gain sensitivity in my penis as well?[/quote]

Sorry but I don't know, I guess it depends how de-sensitised or familiar your right hand feels to your penis/brain connection.

life-cubed wrote:

[quote=life-cubed][quote=jersey1][quote=life-cubed]I guess the left hand seems new and exciting to your brain![/quote]Will my right hand gain sensitivity in my penis as well?[/quote]

Sorry but I don't know, I guess it depends how de-sensitised or familiar your right hand feels to your penis/brain connection.[/quote]Well then I'll just keep rebooting till I regain my sensitivity

My progress so far

Lately I've been having positive attitudes, smiling, getting eye contact & smiles from woman. It's a wonderful feeling knowing that I don't have to worry about having brain fog, scenes from porn clips. I was flipping through channels looking for something to watch on T.V and a victoria secret commercial came up, I didn't get an erection, it mostly was boring when I changed the channel, It made me proud that I'm recovery just fine. Although I may be till flatlining but I don't worry about forcing erections or my libido. I told myself I will relax,I will reboot & I will recover