If somehow anyone doesn’t know what the friendzone is, it’s where a woman thinks of you like a little brother and treats you as such, and seems to have absolutely no attraction for you. I used to really be cautious regarding the friend zone, so when I liked a woman, I used to make it very clear and obvious that I liked her, and I would often compliment her or if we were going somewhere together, I would get them a bar of chocolate or some flowers I picked from the forest nearby. Most of them didn’t seem to like this gesture and never replied warmly when I complimented them or flirted with them, so I think maybe I should had not been so forward. But when I stop being so forward and just stay friendly and try to slowly get closer to her, I get put into what I suppose would be the friend zone.
I suppose one would say that if a woman doesn’t like you at the beginning, she never will and you will always be in the friendzone with her. But don’t women sometimes say that at first they didn’t like their husband but slowly they began to love him? Isn’t seducing a woman a real thing? There has to be a way to go from A (strangers) to C (the woman starts to like you) to D (become a couple). I interpret ‘B’ in this sequence to be ‘become friends’, but how does one do this without falling into the friendzone? It’s a mystery to me.
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