It is my goal to give as much pleasure to a woman as possible. I'm at that age now where i'm not looking for any long-term relationship, more experience-building shorter ones.
I have got 2 books on the subject of giving women 'maximum pleasure'. And both go about it in totally different ways. One book is called 'the multi-orgasmic man' by Mantak Chia, and the other is 'Cupid's Poisoned Arrow', by Marnia Robinson. The reasons I am looking at these books are that they are both methods which prevent ejaculation; which gives me a terrible hangover!
It's quite a difficult choice to make. While orgasm for women contains many hormones and chemicals which causes a woman to supposedly be more attracted and closer to you after orgasm, there's also a hangover involved.
Another problem is that Mantak Chia's methods for preventing ejaculation seem very unnatural and stressful on the prostate. The methods of holding in the semen and pressing the perineum don't seem healthy to me.
While I haven't read Marnia's book yet, I've always had the impression from Reuniting that Karezza is something for married/long-term, understanding couples only. I thought that Karezza involved a boring 'getting used to your partner' timescale, and that the first times were inevitably a bit tedious. (From what I saw on some of the blogs about Karezza, it's more of an awkward learning experience for a married couple than a sexual technique employed by a young man to satisfy and pleasure his new lady). If a young woman had sex with me, and I just lay there, I can only suppose she'll think i'm terrible at sex!
So, I'm looking for a technique that does not involve ejaculation (and hence no or little hangover), but will also gives the new girl I fancy the best pleasure she's ever had so she'll be back for more And i'm not sure which path to take. I know Mantak Chia's advice would be totally ideal for giving my girl the night of her life, but it doesn't seem right nor healthy by pressing various places I shouldn't.
Marnia's book and reuniting look great. But i'm not sure if it's for me. The focus of Karezza seems to be reigniting the passion in a dry marriage, not taking a beautiful girl home with you to please her.
What should I do? I don't suppose there's any compromise involved that allows me give the girl breathtaking passionate sex, make her bond closer to me without orgasm/hangover, yet will still be healthy and relaxing for me?
Thanks for reading :)