How do you do this? Is this even necessary?
I found that in my own experience with my male partners, the issue was how he would go out of sync with me once we started having sex (and I would feel INTENSELY bonded after an orgasm) and I would feel like I'd gotten close to someone only to have them ripped from me. I didn't have issues being postcoitally emotionally out of sync with my woman partner, so it never occurred to me to try to avoid orgasm - although this community may have been helpful for other reasons. We may have benefited from less of a "getting off" approach to our sex and she had a very hard time having an orgasm, so being "let off the hook" for one may have been helpful.
Is there any benefit to avoiding orgasm for women?
How do the principles of Karezza apply to two women?
How do you have this style of sex when there is no penis involved? I was interested in sacred sexuality approaches, too, but couldn't wrap my mind around how to do many of the practices if there is no penile penetration.