I am a new kid to this forum (and this Karezza concept, for that matter)! I experienced some sexual abuse as an adult about 6 years ago (one in the former of molesting from a trusted spiritual advisor, the other was rape from someone I went on a date with) and I am only just now getting therapy that really fits. My therapist recommended this book to me just to demonstrate that there are more communities/options than simple orgasm sex (which I have yet to experience an orgasm so far anyway due to trauma/anxiety around sex, especially intercourse). I am intrigued by Karezza and it sounds too good to be true. I have a lot of anxiety and panic around 'traditional' sex and the thought of not having the pressure to experience an orgasm (or not having to fight my resentment toward the male orgasm) sounds like such a relief. Does anyone out there have experience or thoughts about Karezza as a sexual abuse survivor or if it has been helpful if there is a history of sexual trauma? No partner in the picture for me, so everything is speculative at the moment- but I would really love the feedback!