Only just found out about Karezza a month or two ago, I was always a fan of the nofap movement and noticed significant results from that; but I had no idea that orgasm with a partner can actually alter your perception of your partner and allow you to focus strongly on their negative points. now that I know this information, I can't stop thinking that my decision to break up with my ex gf was such a bad call. The situation is everything the book says, you start off completely obsessed with the new spouse but after ten months of orgasm based sex I was so desperate to break it off and be with other partners. Although I have been with other girls since her I have never really gotten over this one particular girl, and I think if I had known about Karezza, dopamine and oxytocin; and how orgasm affects all three, I wouldn't have broken up with her and we'd probably still be together today.
I've been completely confused about why I wanted to break up with her so much, but when I did break it off I missed her so much and still do (I broke up over one year ago) but I think orgasm and the natural programmed mating behaviours may have been reason.
In a way I am happy, because the relationship with that girl was the most perfect relationship I could have asked for, we had so much chemistry and she was literally from my dreams, and even all that wasn't enough to make me want to stay with her; I can pretty much pinpoint it down to what Marinia writes in her book so it's great to have this knowledge that, if I ever get another girl like her again, I won't make the same mistake
And I can't get this girl back by the way, she lives in another country now.
I don't really want anything from you guys, just sharing my story in the only place I know where, and maybe some of you guys have been through something similar to this situation and want to share your stories.
Thanks for reading