I am new to being a member of this website but have been exploring sacred sex for a year or so now. I am currently on day 45 of semen retention which is a record for me. I am hoping to reach 2 months but I am curious if anyone believes" the longer the better " or if I am at this point OK to start again. My goals are : ejaculation control, deeper understanding of my wife, more energy for life, and to learn the art of karezza. My obstacles are: past premature ejaculation memories, my wife has a lower sex drive than I, we have a busy life and kids, and sometimes my heightened sexual energy seems to almost make her want sex less because we are at different starting places( can be really frustrating to have a desire for sex push sex off further!)( im working on that one) anyone have advice on any of these matters? Thank you and grateful to have found this site!