This no longer applies to me, but it is a question I have always had, and I joined this site mainly to have it answered.
I definitely subscribe to the theory behind men withholding orgasms. I had practiced it for four, five, six months at a time for years, and now have completely accepted it as my lifestyle.
But what about procreation? I know that it can be seen as a positive expression, but isn’t it still sending a male’s system “out of whack”? While it possibly can be argued that our souls are pure enough to keep our life-force strong after "reproductive" orgasms, I’m not sure if I buy into that theory. To me, I would think that “an O is an O” as far as our internal (and external) organs are concerned.
What advice is there for men who practice the withholding lifestyle but also want to procreate? Would it be suggested that the male take the most strategic route towards successful procreation? For instance, having reproductive sex once or twice a day while the female is fertile. Or would it be suggested that he try to impregnate the female while ejaculating as infrequently as possible? For instance, having reproductive sex just once each month and then waiting to see if it was successful?