Just wanted to say thank you to the participants of this forum. I found this website back in summer of 2011 and it changed my life for the better. But it did take time. It was only after I kicked masturbation and pornography that I was able to be clear-minded enough to seek help for the deeper intimacy dysfunction I am working on healing now. I'm so impressed with the honesty of the people here in sharing their experiences in a frank way. It helped get me started on taking stock of myself as clearly but with gentleness. Back then I was convinced I was alone in my misery and that made me isolate more. This website helped me see otherwise.