I haven't said how much finding this website really means to me. It's hard to put into words anyway, but Marnia and Gary should still know it's not something I'd just take for granted. Quite frankly, it's new hope. For months I went through these phony religious and semi-religious websites (God doesn't want you to look at porn!; Pray and you shall be set free!; Connections between porn industry and sex crime rate are either evident or not; The Devil puts porn into your head and you'll turn into a serial killer now; 12-step program to become a gutless eunuch; etc; etc).
And then you stumble across something sober and solid, that still says what you want is probably possible if you k n o w t h i s a n d t h i s. It's simple intelligence, but so hard to gain.
Your website, and its anti-orgasmic message, have really changed my life for the better. Much better. You are truly changing and healing people. Thank you, thank you, thank you.
Here's a blog entry from a man who has been experimenting with changing his habits: http://www.reuniting.info/node/1505