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Eye gazing versus cuddle parties

Submitted by freedom on

Search has been a tad buggy as the site gets re-indexed. I’m pretty sure this is another post that’s been sitting around for a while (6 months or so).

Keep in mind I’ve had only limited experience with these events filtered through my own perspective. Your experiences may differ due to the hosts, who you are, mood, others who are there, etc. Both are worth trying.

Eye gazing party -e.g.,

Life is like...

Submitted by ComplexCasio on

Life is like...(a box of chocolates) - I love that line - One of the greatest lines ever, given seemingly by somewhat of a below average intelligence man. It's so true because we as humans like to complicate things, and I believe we do this just so we have a "problem" to work on. Then we hem and haw about it, and wonder why we haven't "figured" it out. Life is simple. So, now I'm gonna complicate this simple life with an analogy.

Brain Plasticity

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Submitted by Arnold on

I've been pondering the idea of brain plasticity which I understand is at the root of why people are concerned about pornography. If the brain is plastic then you can program it. Pornography programs it through passive visualization in a certain direction with certain predictable (and not so healthy) results.

Site changes

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Submitted by Marnia on

Sorry for all the confusion. We have a new web guy helping, which means he didn't know the site from the bottom up like our former helper. Moreover, the upgrade involved a double upgrade - from 5 to 6 and from 6 to 7. This has made the process more challenging than usual. On top of that, our host seems to be having unexpected problems that only affected Reuniting (due to the forum?), not YBOP. 

Intro!!! 20 years old, tall, blond, handsome and unable to perform! 35 days in

Submitted by Thegdub on

Well hello everyone and let me start off by saying thank God I have found and this site. I could not imagine the amount of pain I would be sentenced to due to a debilitating addiction to porn and spanking the monkey [bigsmile]
Welp where do I start with this whole thing I have a lot on my mind so organizing this into comprehensible words and sentences is going to be an issue, but here we goooo.

Questions Raised About "Love Hormone's" Real Impact

Submitted by gary on

Questions Raised About "Love Hormone's" Real Impact
By Stephanie Pappas

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With Valentine's Day just around the corner, love is in the air. Or is it oxytocin? This so-called "love hormone" is involved in social bonding, and it always seems to get a publicity boost around Feb. 14. But research suggests that oxytocin isn't all roses and heart-shaped chocolates.