Search has been a tad buggy as the site gets re-indexed. I’m pretty sure this is another post that’s been sitting around for a while (6 months or so).
Keep in mind I’ve had only limited experience with these events filtered through my own perspective. Your experiences may differ due to the hosts, who you are, mood, others who are there, etc. Both are worth trying.
Eye gazing party -e.g., http://www.eyegazingparties.com