My spiritual evolution and all its twists and turns has lead me to believe that I must now learn to channel my sexual energy in a creative productive way. Recently I practice 6 weeks of semen retention and I envisioned it having a profound effect in my relationship and sex life. The opposite came true, although i still am a believer in retaining ones seed for many reasons. But it was my experience that my wife and I grew further apart and my sexual energy overwhelmed her. It is true that we already had an imbalance in this area but this seemed to amplify the difference.
I am new to being a member of this website but have been exploring sacred sex for a year or so now. I am currently on day 45 of semen retention which is a record for me. I am hoping to reach 2 months but I am curious if anyone believes" the longer the better " or if I am at this point OK to start again. My goals are : ejaculation control, deeper understanding of my wife, more energy for life, and to learn the art of karezza.
I am getting attracted towards my sister in law. Every time i see her I am like just grab her and finish it off, but then i control myself as it would be wrong to my brother. Even she some times try in provoke me or may be thats my misundestanding but i am in a totally confused stage. Now a days i just try to avoid being near her as its very difficult to control myself. But then even she some time play with me, like last time we went to a movie, i was having pop corn and while watching the movie she was taking popcorn from me and suddenly she touched my penis instead of taking popcorn.
I always am very anxious and cowardly in the first days after ejaculation, I think this is mostly due to the decrease of neural androgen receptors that happens after ejaculating. Does anybody know a way, to increase androgen receptors(amount or just general sensitivity of the receptors)in te brain? Would be happy to hear from you guys.
Hello everybody, it's been a long time since I've posted here last, but I'm currently in a situation where I feel the need to share about my struggles again.
I indulged in FMO for the last time back in 2013, when I was interested in somebody. However, it ended in another buried affection; and I even got so depressed at some point that I lost any interest in fantasizing.
I didn’t see this topic when I searched. I heard an interview with Ian Kerner, author of She Comes First. He claims he’s on the other end of the spectrum from the ideas here. At times, he seemed a little unsure of himself about that so who knows.
Italian man new in this group and new into karezza. I know I have to change. But karezza is so different for me that i really need help to share experiences and guide me.
I am new to this Karezza site and am very intrigued by the concept of mutually pleasurable, non-dominate, non-orgasmic-oriented sexuality that actually builds a united relationship rather than break it apart.
I am a very hesitant but curious willing participant as I am an abuse survivor and want to believe that male-female sexuality can be redeemed.
My bf called me a post-orgasm princess (in a playful way) today. I think it accurately describes how I act, behave and feel when I'm in an O-recovery period.