Hi, I posted to this site a while back when I started my road to recovery. A quick background, I'm 32 and I had been masturbating to porn just about everyday for about 20 years. I have gone 130 days without watching any porn and I have masturbated 4 times during this time period (last time was about 8 weeks ago). At about days 70 - 100 I noticed a nice improvement sexually. I have a gf who I have been with for about 7 months now and we were having good sex during this time frame (usually 2 - 3 times per week). However, about a month ago my libido absolutely flatlined. I mean over the last month I have had zero desire to look at porn, masturbate or have sex...I mean nothing. My penis is essentially lifeless. I have never felt like this in my entire life and it is very scary and I feel like am running out of time. Needless to say we have had infrequent sex over the last month and when we do it usually isn't very good (i.e me losing my erection in the middle). My gf has been become very frustrated by this as she is starting to think its because I am no longer attracted to her which couldn't be further from the truth (she is absolutely beautiful). In fact, tonight she stormed out of my apartment after another failed attempt at sex. I am extremely worried that she is going to break up with me if this doesn't get resolved soon, but I have no clue how to get my libido back and I can't expect her to wait forever as she has already been very patient with me up to this point (if I was in her position I probably would have broke up with me at this point). I feel so helpless right now and I have no answers. Why am I still having all these issues after 130 days? I thought I was supposed to get better not worse? If anyone has any advice whatsoever I would appreciate it. I am now seriously considering going to see a therapist at this point...has this helped anyone else?