Hi there. Me and my girlfriend have been trying non-orgasmic sex for a while now, and although I will detail more of our experiences in another post, I have a few questions.
In terms of satisfaction with non-orgasmic intercourse, I am completely happy. I feel nourished, and I feel like my sexual energy has been transferred/transformed in a very fulfilling way. The story with my girlfriend is different however.
I have a great quote that she said after today's love-making: "My vagina is no longer hungry, but my clitoris is". During intercourse she didn't feel comfortable because she felt her clitoris needed stimulation. And on many occasions she just doesn't feel like anything is happening in terms of her sexual energy. This leaves her frustrated.
Does anybody have experience with this kind of problem, and know any ideas to help?
Also, what is allowed during foreplay? I thought I might be arousing her too much... is kissing/licking the breasts allowed?
Thanks in advance...