This is about a girl i met about a year ago at my friend Mary's church during worship service.
If there are any girls or guys who may be able to help please do!
This girl's name is Anny and my friend's name is Mary.
Mary is close friends with Anny.
When I met Anny a year ago, my friend Mary
introduced us, and there was a connection
between Anny and I. Anny is a very busy
girl with school, work, and she has
much responsibility in church for she is
the minister's daughter. Marry told
me that Anny "liked me", I was
happy because I felt the same.
However, we were both very busy
with school and work at the time,
and it didn't help that she lives
in santa clarita, and i live in sanfernando valley
It's a good distance apart.
what really caused us to stop talking
a year ago, was when I
sent her a very pushy text.
I said something "I don't understand
why we hardly talk on the phone every
week, and why we just dont meet up
and see each other because we like each other".
I'm cutting myself a lot of slack, because i remember
being a little more aggressive than that.
The reason I was aggressive, was because I never
really felt this way about any other girl. Anny is beautiful,
but in the intellectual sense, spiritual sense, and yes
the physical as well. What really got me to like her though,
was that I felt that we ran on a very similiar brain thinking
frequency if that makes ANY sense. So maybe I developed
a more sense of attachment for her because this was
my 2nd time meeting any girl who we shared this similiarity,
first was ex-gf.
Anyway after that happened, she stopped responding to a few
of my texts and calls, and we just stopped talking from there.
I told Mary what I said and she said I made a mistake,
and I agreed.
Now, about a year later, after coming back from visiting new york,
I find out that Anny still likes me.
I'm gonna cut it very short here: here's the problem
Mary tells me that Anny has trouble opening her heart at all,
even to Mary as a friend. Anny told Mary that she's afraid
to get hurt, I don't know why but now that I realize it
Anny has always been kind of a closed door kind of person,
hard to open up and express her self and feelings.
The way I can say it is, is somethings bothering
her emotionally, she'll either just channel it
and burn those feelings up by immersing herself
through work, school, church work etc.
or maybe just hide from those feelings with
Even if we're not right for each other,
I'd like to maybe see from a women's
viewpoint about what they think
of Anny, Go ahead and ask me
any questions please!
What do I do?