My experience with sex dreams is that they are rare, but much more vivid and "Platonically real" (ironically) than sexual experiences in real life. Has anyone else felt this way?
Anyway, as a result I have found myself actually seeking out such experiences during my periods of abstinence, albeit with no success thus far. (e.g. sleeping naked to avoid any mechanical obstructions to...the process.)
I am aware that I might be working against myself here, in terms of neural pathways. I've been clean almost 10 days, temptations looming up by and by, and I may only be making it harder for myself by indulging nontactically in fantasies, if only for a few seconds at a time. But this is still an experiment for me.
Incidentally, the most vivid "sex dream" I've had thus far was a like a combination of bbHousebb of Leaves and Twilight: it began with a close-up discovery of a frightening, agoraphobical discovery of the vampires' underground labyrinth and ended with me sitting between two female vampires at a baseball game, trying to hold both of them back yet enjoying their touch at the same time. (God, I love Dr. Freud.)