hello every one
Hi am a 20 years old male and I think I am living a boring life, nothing intretst me as life used to be back in high school, full of passion adrenalin. I was always falling in and out off love.
When I see beautiful girls around my heart would always jump and start beating fast.
Later on after 2006 when i finished hight school, I started to realise that I was missing alot of those feelings, I wasn’t doing what my friends were doing, they were always talking about girl’s friends, going out, I was just being a good boy, staying home. I was getting real bored with my life.
I started going out around 2007, socialising with allot of girls, most of them had crush on me, they were beautiful no crush with any of them at allot. I though if I had a g/f it might bring back those feelings back, I tried every thing sex no sign at all.
I started to realise that I had no more feelings not even for sex, I never drove any pleasure out of it, it was as boring as doing sit ups, no emotions attached to it what so ever.
I can get an erection, with no strong desire attached.
Iv seen 2 doctors and they couldn’t help, all they were asking if I again an eructation, how long it lasted and told me it might be a psychological problem.
Until now 2009 I feel the same way.
So today I came across this web site and started reading the topic( your brain on sex) I cam to realise that I might have deficients in dopamine or oxotocin level.
Because the listed behaviors and conditions associated with dopamine levels I usually experience those on the Deficient section, to the point were sometimes every thing is just boring.
So… what does it mean for me, if this is my problem?
Can it be resolved?
because i dont want to be like this for the rest of my life.