I am a happily married woman, but find that I am struggling with sexual anorexia. I have been doing some research and it appears that this affects woman more than men, and is often associated with Child Sex Abuse. I have never suffered from CSA, but find that I seem to not have a sex drive so to speak, but once we are engaged in sex, I am into it. I don't seem to want to have it at all, and it is very hard and hurtful to my partner, who is very supportive. I don't seem to have sexual fantasies like other people and wonder if I am the only one. I want so much to have a healthy sexual relationship with my husband, but something holds me back and I just don't know what to do anymore. It is truly affecting our relationship as we can go months without any intimacy, and that just is not right. I need some help and some tips with how I can deal with this. Any ideas, I am open to all suggestions.