I believe she wrote in her book (and it has been many people's experience) that when a couple is in love they either don't experience the hangover or don't notice it. Still, she wrote So the principles outlined in "Peace" shouldn't be applied in a new relationship but later, right? If things always went downhill after consummating a new relationship I don't believe people would get together. Also if there was a way to remain in love there may not be any problems. Marnia, have all your relationships hit the skids shortly after the first night? I hope not. She wrote she really hit it off with a guy she met through a psycic and things went downhill after they had sex, I wonder how long they knew each other before. Also she said she adored her first husband untill they had been married awhile- looks like it was different! I wonder why?