im new here. im a guy.
Supposing me and my wife engage in a non-orgasm goal motivated sex.
i got some questions to ask...
1. Yam yum is one the most sensual intimate sex position in a tantric sex position. While doing in this position with my wife, is it ok to engage to a foreplay with my wife such as:
a. french kissing
b. i want lick and suck her nipple
c. gentle caress her breasts with my hands
Note: please tell me which of the three above is not advisable to engage?
2. How do you describe and perceive a "unselfish giving" in a sexual activity to my wife (in a male perspective since im a guy)?
3. How can I be more caring and affectionate (unselfishly) with her in terms of our sexual activity in the bed?
4. How can I "unselfishly give myself" to my wife in terms of sexual activity?
Note: Please give a detail examples and explaination of Q#2, Q#3 and Q#4.