I am in my 5th day of deaddiction from porn. I am practicing bonding behaviours with my wife whenever we get time with each other.
My wife explained about karezza - The non-orgasmic sex. I have understood that doing karezza will help increase the bond but as it practices non-orgasmic sex, i request a clarification of how it might help in conception. We are planning to have a baby for the past 5 years and was not able to due to my porn addiction. We are now ready to wait till I come out of this addiction to get a child.
Can some one please explain how to use karezza in such a way that it does not stop our chances of conception as we want to get a child at least when we are ready to beget one.
Also while practicing bonding behaviours, I get erection. As marnia suggested, my wife keeps her hand on my penis gently until my erection subsides. Now I am worried that if this continues, even if we decide to have a baby in the future, this might condition me in such a way that if I get an erection, I may lose it when my wife touches me. Can some one please clarify on this as I think this is a sort of conditioning behaviour.
I know that I am very confused and I require some clarity.
Many thanks in advance