My husband has been trying to recover from his porn/masturbation addiction. As far as I know, he was porn free (not masturbation) for 6-7 weeks. I have noticed his edginess over the last couple of weeks and have some questions. He had one particular site that he went to everyday for hours at a time. He gave this up, but still would look at one particular site that shows celebrities, models, etc. sometimes completely nude, sometimes bikini shots, but mostly boob shots. He would only look at a few pictures each day. I don't think he thinks there is anything wrong with this. He still only wants sex when he's turned on by these images. Yesterday, I saw that he visited his old favorite site. My heart sank, once again. He was very amorous and I could tell he wanted to be with me later that evening. Instead, I ended up caring for our sick daughter, and much to my relief, was unavailable for sex. Today, he has been peeking at pics again and is coming on strong. I don't know if I'm supposed to make love with him and pretend not to know, or am I supposed to tell him why I can't make love to him when I know he is fantasizing with his images while he's with me. He has always told me that he doesn't ever fantasize when with me and that images don't really stay in a man's head. Of course, I know this not to be true. This is such a slippery slope, because I don't want to reject him, but I don't want to be hurt myself. I have a very high sex drive, and I'm so tired of being rejected and only wanted when "he's in the mood". I don't know how much more I can take. Any advice??