I have spent the previous three years single, but sexual, using my massager maybe two or three times a week, sometimes going without for several weeks at a time. I've now had a partner for almost three months and have been so disturbed by how hungover I've felt after being with him that I googled "Sex Hangover" and found this site that way. I am both thrilled that the knowledge on this site is available, and sooooo sad that after years of being partnerless that now we have to reign in our sexuality (orgasm wise) or risk losing one another. But I can feel his distance developing, not to mention the relief I feel when I know we won't be seeing one another for a few days simply because I am so wiped out, so hungover, that I need to rest and gather up my strength (and attractiveness, frankly, as the hangover leaves me LOOKING wiped out as well). I love this man, and am frightened by the certainty I feel that he is ready to leave because he's shared with me that he's felt the hangover as well.
So, for starters, my question is this: Why do I feel hungover with HIM, but never have with my vibrator?