♥Avoiding rgasms is not an option...

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I am currently in a relationship where karezza, and abstaining orgasm is a big source of disagreement between my partner and I. For various reasons I don't want to explore now, I will be having traditional sex for at least the next couple months. I am curious if anyone can offer advice on how to keep myself as regulated as possible, and help work with the anxiety while getting out of the 2-week hangover is not an option. *please no advice on trying to persuade my partner, or pressing my current decision*

Sure,

Bonding behaviors have been known to work wonders, even where one or both partners is orgasming.:-)

Have you read any of these items?

“The Lazy Way to Stay in Love”
http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/cupids-poisoned-arrow/200909/the-laz...

“Relationship Advice: De-stress With Your Mate Using Bonding Behaviors”
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/marnia-robinson/relationship-advice-de-st_...

Thirty-one playful, affectionate behaviors for couples: http://www.reuniting.info/download/pdf/Bonding.Behaviors.pdf

Good luck and let us know how it goes. I've enabled you to blog.

Yes! Yes! Yes!

Bonding Behaviors are the key!
Developing your meditation practice is good too for working on your attachment and wishes for something better.