I have been a habitual user of porn for many years and it has completely destroyed my ability to get and maintain an erection during normal sexual intercourse. I finally decided to seek recovery when I started dated someone who just rocked my world, but with whom I have not been able to have sex due to ED after about 4 dates. I have not told her about my porn addiction..only that I was going to see a doctor about the problem..but I'm afraid it is too late. The relationship has definitely cooled and I'm afraid may be over. I guess I should be thankful that meeting someone I really connect with gave me the motivation and strength to deal with this problem, including through a porn filter on my computer. But I am just devastated over the fact that I'm probably going to lose this woman. I don't know how I can tell her that I've been addicted to porn and need to abstain for 2 to 4 months or longer. I'd appreciate any advice on how to handle/address this with her and any anecdotes about similar experiences. Thanks.