Hi, I found your site when looking into sexual exhaustion. But not the short-term sexual exhaustion, I am talking about devastating long term exhaustion that results from ejaculating everyday, usually to porn for many years. There are many guys out there suffering with this. There are a couple of sites that use Taoists theories mixed with modern science to attempt to explain what happens. (One is Actionlove.com and the other is herballove.com)
Symptoms include, and I've had them all: weak erection, premature ejaculation, impotence, zero libido, eye floaters, groin pain inflammation, prostate problems, immunity problems, tinnitus, skin problems, hair loss, joint pain, muscle loss, light sensitivity, depression.
The theories presented are neuro-transmitter deficiencies and endocrine system problems. I don't think they know the exact reasons, but they are close. They are more interesting in selling their products than helping people.
There another forum I found,
which is a bunch of guys that all have these symptoms, and all have used internet porn extensively.
After 3.5 years, I am finally making some progress by working on Adrenal Fatigue.
In fact, I was able to have sex with my wife for the 1st time in 3.5 years. And we made sure that we did not orgasm. It was a very nice experience. However, I have a very severe case of "Blue Balls" and I am barely able to walk. And every time I touch my wife, I get another erection, which makes it worse.
I am kind of hoping for a wet dream.
What is you advice? I'm sure your husband has similar issues.
Thanks in advance.