Ok so. I am actively meeting people on OkCupid.
I decided I would feel comfortable talking about karezza on a second date. I'm pretty experienced at TMI/oversharing and I can usually make someone comfortable with me (or if he didn't seem comfortable and open, I would hold off).
But I need to know from the men, how should I present this idea? Should I put more emphasis on how I have personally chosen to forego orgasms because of the benefits to my reward circuitry or more on the loving connection I am looking for in a partner? Or what?
I'm curious about your different perspectives. I kinda feel like if I start talking about pair-bonding and all this, a guy would get his shields up thinking I want to jump straight into a super-serious committed relationship, or that I don't like sex, or something.