Right here's my desperate story!
I'm 35 years old and have been M since i was 15 and to internet multi-windows open porn for the last 10 years or so. I'm straight but i never M to clips of normal sexual activity it was always fetish P like s&m, lycra/spandex, superheroines (!). I was into lots of weird, kinky stuff. Always involving consenting adult humans i must add!!
Now i've always done ok attracting girls but the relationships would always go the same way. I'd find them attractive, have sex with them and really enjoy it but then i would completely go off them sexually within a few days and if we even had sex anymore i would have to fantasise about those porn scenarios in my head to be turned on.
Back in april i met a new girl that i had been attracted to for a long time. But the same thing happened so in desperation i went on the net and found the yourbrainonporn site. However due to the fact that i was in a new relationship and still just about having sex (increasingly having to rely on porn fantasy to stay hard) i didn't do the whole reboot thing.
Anyway the problem remained. I massively cut down on P and M but the old kinky, fetish fantasies were still the only thing that could turn me on! I had completely gone off the girl.
So...on september 1st i came clean to her and told her that P had messed me up and i wanted to do 2 months with no PMO. She reluctantly agreed. It's been Ok so far. I've had a few days when the old fantasies have appeared in my head and i've had to REALLY struggle to get rid of them. They still clearly turn me on. I must be in the flat line period right now. I haven't had a proper erection in 5 weeks.
All i want is to find normal sexual contact with my girlfriend arousing again. Can anybody give me any advice please??