Hello I'm new to the site seeking some help. I feel so lost and confused. I got a lot of info from Yourbrainonporn site and I do believe that is my problem. I've been with my gf for 6 months now and I love her more than anything, I have desire to be with her and I want to stay with her. She is VERY sexually active, but I need to abstain from orgasm to rewire my brain. We went a week and things were seemingly AMAZING but tonight it went bad I couldn't keep an erection at all! It was terrible. I noticed I could get erections from thoughts and fantasies of just her and just her touching me, but I think I jumped the gun way to soon. My gf thinks this is insane and just doesn't get it. I've shown her the stuff on the site and what not, and she finally became ok but is still skeptical.
I'm at a loss and need help. How do I get better, but maintain my relationship? The first week we had sex but I didn't orgasm. I wanted to! but I didn't. Is this bad for rewiring? Having sex is a big thing for us, we have a strong connection, its more than just having sex to us.